Practice Inner Reflections IL For The Soul Healing

By Paul Phillips


Reaching inside your emotions and pulling them out for examination is not an easy task, especially when those emotions may be painful. However, by learning the proper self help techniques, you can gain more insight to your feelings, and how to best control them during the times you need to the most. No matter what may be troubling you and no matter how it got there, learning about self help benefits and techniques is important. Through inner reflections IL, the Oregon residents have the opportunity to work on the soul healing.

Depression and anxiety go hand-in-hand with many emotion-altering occurrences in life. Whether you have experienced the grief of losing a loved one, or you are going through the stress of divorce, depression and anxiety, learning the strategies on how to have a positive outlook and how to get a grip on the good aspects of every situation, is a way to help your emotions stay on the upside.

As Americans, we all learned how suffering was a national, if not a world, event on 9/11. More recently, Joplin, Mo. Taught us a deep lesson about suffering great losses as well as the resiliency of its people. Suffering has the ability to bring people together; it has the ability to heal that which we may or may not know needs inner healing.

At first, you can barely detect the inner child voice at all, but it gradually became more individual as you give it more attention. The child has lacked secure love during your growing up years. What the child needed now is the secure love and guidance of your adult self as a parent -- the secure love and guidance it had not consistently received in actuality.

When difficulties arise in relationship it may be important to ask each other, "Who exactly is speaking just now?" - and also, "Do you think these feelings you have just now relate to some past experience?" If a past experience is being called up by present events, then we can be almost certain that the child voice is involved somehow and needs immediate attention and comfort.

Every one of these questions would take several years, hours of reflection, tears and emerging fears, doubts and frustrations. I wanted the magic pill that would transform my life into clarity immediately. I felt frozen in pain and indecision. There was no one who could make these decisions for me.

Suffering with purpose takes great self-awareness. Many of us do not suffer well because we may not recognize it as purposeful. I can honestly state, I do not do suffering well. Although, I can readily admit my biggest learning moments have come from suffering a loss. For me, the biggest loss was the death of my younger brother, who was the baby of our family.

The desired goal is that we be in good relationship with our whole self and with others, especially with those closest to us. While committed partnerships may pose the greatest challenge to our ability to greet each day's events with equanimity, committed partnerships may also provide another compassionate but firm voice to assist us toward greater personal development.




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